Look, on the standard policy, YOU PICK what coverage you get, when you buy the policy. You can't unilatirally upgrade, AFTER the claim.
If there's no water damage, it's UNREASONABLE for you to expect to have brand new sheetrock put up - your insurance owes you the cost of repair or replace, whichever is LESS.
YOUR unit coverage does NOT pay for your lost wages!! You have NO lost wages coverage, under a standard condo policy. The 2 hours of time, would be LABOR, for your direct cleanup time. They'll pay the contractor for their time, or if you do it yourself, you are entitled to be paid for cleanup time.
Of COURSE your association won't cover this, it's under the deductible! And whether or not there's a BYLAW involved, stupidity is not the same thing as negligence. That won't stop you from suing your neighbor, but you'll probably not WIN that lawsuit, in court.
My advice, is sell the condo. Water damage claims like this happen ALL THE TIME. So much so, that MOST master policies flat out won't cover them, AT ALL. If you don't want the hassle of dealing with possible damage to your unit from a neighbor, you'll have to buy a stand alone home.
My other advice is, read your policy. You really need to understand what is covered. Waiting until AFTER claim time to find out that you have a deductible, and your damages are only $200 over your deductible, and you'll see a rate increase (and worse, another claim will likely get you NONRENEWED and you'll be uninsurable), is, well, you not reading your policy. So go read it.